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Post by Prole Hole on Jun 27, 2023 4:48:46 GMT -5
So here's the thing. Despite being very much A 90s Person, and having now reached the grand old age of half a century, I have, or rather until recently had, never seen an episode of Friends. I haven't avoided it, as such, but when it was on during its 90s heyday I guess I was either out or drunk or out and drunk or something, but I just never saw it. Then come 2004 I moved abroad and cut the cord, mostly either watching TV through *cough* certain means or stuff on physical media, so I never came across reruns. Arguably the most zeitgeisty show of the 90s (what's the competition? The X-Files maybe?) entirely passed me by. Well, all that has now changed. My partner, Seoul Hole, is a massive fan of the show. For him, it's perfect comfort television and a show he's watched about a bajillion times. Having discovered this otherwise massive hole in my pop-culture experience and watching to share one of his favourite shows with me* , he is therefore sitting me down so I can, for the very first time and with virtually no foreknowledge, watch the popular sitcom Friends. And this very thread will be my testimony! Or, in fact, our testimony, since he has offered to chip in and add thoughts as well. Feel free to weigh in as I plough through the series and make a series of observations that are coloured by both my complete ignorance on the subject and probably startlingly obvious to everyone else. Thoughts upcoming! So far I have seen three episodes of Season One and five episodes of Season Three. * Note that this is a two-way process and he is currently watching Star Trek: The Next Generation for exactly the same reason - it's perfect comfort TV for me, something I love, and something he's never seen. While we lack the thorough scientific analysis of Nudeviking 's Star Trek Fuck Report, it's still fun!
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Post by Ben Grimm on Jun 27, 2023 9:06:10 GMT -5
I watched Friends some for its first season or two (I honestly can't remember when I stopped), mainly because I had been in the habit of watching NBC's Thursday night block since its 80s heyday, and I think it was adjacent to Seinfeld, which I was watching religiously.
I remember almost nothing about the show beyond the broad strokes. I couldn't tell you the plot to a single episode.
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Post by Desert Dweller on Jun 27, 2023 10:45:55 GMT -5
I watched it in real time, but I haven't rewatched it since then. My friends and I used to watch it in a block with Seinfeld, which was the show we all really liked.
There are a few episodes that stand out to me as being very good, which I actually remember the individual plots of. But there are huge swaths of it I don't remember at all.
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Post by LazBro on Jun 27, 2023 10:49:39 GMT -5
I've seen very few whole episodes of the show, but my mom liked it so it was frequently on while I was around. I remember two things:
- The episode where they play games to compete over who gets the big apartment. That was funny.
- The Thanksgiving episode where they play football and Phoebe shows her tits (to Joey, not the audience, obviously)
That's it.
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Post by Nudeviking on Jun 27, 2023 19:06:14 GMT -5
Friends was something I was aware of and saw some episodes of but it hit the air when I was a high school aged boy and so between part-time jobs and shit on cable TV aimed more specifically at my demographic I never really paid much attention to it. Things got worse once I was in college since the weekend started on Thursday evening and thus I was more likely to be getting hammered at that one bar in My Town, USA where all the weirdos hung out. If you lived in a modest sized American city you know the place. Metalheads and punks and rockabillys with girlfriends that dressed like dames that would have been on the nosecone of a WWII bomber all hanging out together at the place that had a decent selection in the jukebox, cheap shots, and a dartboard.
Anyway I'd seen maybe a dozen episodes but then I moved to South Korea in 2003 and my access to American TV became severely limited. I had, at the time, access to the Armed Forces Network, which would show David Letterman and Jay Leno and assorted sitcoms and primetime dramas, and various big market sports games but over on Korean stations I had two additional things: WWE professional wrestling and Friends, both of which I started watching. I'm now pretty sure I've seen every episode of Friends multiple times though as I was watching in on broadcast television it is possible there's some episode that I just consistently missed or one that got pulled from being broadcast in South Korea. I have also seen every episode of Joey because the channel that used to air Friends put that into rotation in their friends block as well as sort of a Season 11.
It's been probably 15 years or so since I've seen an episode as the channel that used to air it stopped airing it and even if they hadn't piracy and legal streaming make it far easier to access stuff I actually want to watch in 2023 than it was in 2003~2006 so it will be interesting to see how it holds up.
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Post by Desert Dweller on Jun 27, 2023 23:10:47 GMT -5
Feel free to weigh in as I plough through the series and make a series of observations that are coloured by both my complete ignorance on the subject and probably startlingly obvious to everyone else. Thoughts upcoming! So far I have seen three episodes of Season One and five episodes of Season Three.
So, is your partner curating episodes? Are you not watching them in order, or just skipping around, or what? Curious as to why you've only seen these episodes?
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Post by Prole Hole on Jun 28, 2023 3:10:05 GMT -5
Feel free to weigh in as I plough through the series and make a series of observations that are coloured by both my complete ignorance on the subject and probably startlingly obvious to everyone else. Thoughts upcoming! So far I have seen three episodes of Season One and five episodes of Season Three.
So, is your partner curating episodes? Are you not watching them in order, or just skipping around, or what? Curious as to why you've only seen these episodes?
No, he's not curating episodes as such. The first few episodes of S1 were just a "here's the show!"-type introduction. According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. The point of him showing me the show is that he wants me to like it so skipping over the first couple of patchy seasons in favour of continuing with Season Three will give a good starting point while allowing the plot beats of the last two seasons to be easily picked up on (such as they are). Hence now being a few episodes into the third season and deciding to do this thread! He reckons that from the beginning of S3 onwards things are basically good till the end, with the possibility of skipping the odd stinker along the way (I am led to believe there's very few of these). Initial upcoming thoughts incoming shortly.
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Post by đȘ silly buns on Jun 28, 2023 8:04:06 GMT -5
I watched all but the last season or two of the show. I have watched the show enough, that when I was going to Planet Fitness, I could run on the treadmills and watch Friends on one of the monitors with no sound, and pretty much know what they were saying.
Not sure how many viewings that would take. I wasn't that big a fan of the show, but yeah it was on around the same day as Seinfeld or Just Shoot Me or Veronica's Closet, so I watched it.
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Post by LazBro on Jun 28, 2023 8:23:27 GMT -5
So, is your partner curating episodes? Are you not watching them in order, or just skipping around, or what? Curious as to why you've only seen these episodes?
No, he's not curating episodes as such. The first few episodes of S1 were just a "here's the show!"-type introduction. According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. The point of him showing me the show is that he wants me to like it so skipping over the first couple of patchy seasons in favour of continuing with Season Three will give a good starting point while allowing the plot beats of the last two seasons to be easily picked up on (such as they are). Hence now being a few episodes into the third season and deciding to do this thread! He reckons that from the beginning of S3 onwards things are basically good till the end, with the possibility of skipping the odd stinker along the way (I am led to believe there's very few of these). Initial upcoming thoughts incoming shortly. Did the same with my kids when my daughter wanted to start watching The Simpsons on Disney+. "That's great!", I said, "We're starting at season 2."
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Post by Roy Batty's Pet Dove on Jun 28, 2023 10:06:19 GMT -5
So, is your partner curating episodes? Are you not watching them in order, or just skipping around, or what? Curious as to why you've only seen these episodes?
No, he's not curating episodes as such. The first few episodes of S1 were just a "here's the show!"-type introduction. According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. The point of him showing me the show is that he wants me to like it so skipping over the first couple of patchy seasons in favour of continuing with Season Three will give a good starting point while allowing the plot beats of the last two seasons to be easily picked up on (such as they are). Hence now being a few episodes into the third season and deciding to do this thread! He reckons that from the beginning of S3 onwards things are basically good till the end, with the possibility of skipping the odd stinker along the way (I am led to believe there's very few of these). Initial upcoming thoughts incoming shortly. Are you skipping the bulk of seasons 1 and 2 of TNG as well?
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Post by Roy Batty's Pet Dove on Jun 28, 2023 10:08:21 GMT -5
Prole Hole, you may not realize this, but the popular sitcom Joey is about the character Joey from Friends, so if youâve already seen that, then youâll already be familiar with one of the titular friends from the show.
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Post by Roy Batty's Pet Dove on Jun 28, 2023 10:09:57 GMT -5
No, he's not curating episodes as such. The first few episodes of S1 were just a "here's the show!"-type introduction. According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. The point of him showing me the show is that he wants me to like it so skipping over the first couple of patchy seasons in favour of continuing with Season Three will give a good starting point while allowing the plot beats of the last two seasons to be easily picked up on (such as they are). Hence now being a few episodes into the third season and deciding to do this thread! He reckons that from the beginning of S3 onwards things are basically good till the end, with the possibility of skipping the odd stinker along the way (I am led to believe there's very few of these). Initial upcoming thoughts incoming shortly. Did the same with my kids when my daughter wanted to start watching The Simpsons on Disney+. "That's great!", I said, "We're starting at season 2." But how will your daughter ever understand whatâs going on in the Slideshow Bob episodes without watching the first one?
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Post by LazBro on Jun 28, 2023 10:13:31 GMT -5
Did the same with my kids when my daughter wanted to start watching The Simpsons on Disney+. "That's great!", I said, "We're starting at season 2." But how will your daughter ever understand whatâs going on in the Slideshow Bob episodes without watching the first one? We'll explain it to them using words.
It didn't end up mattering though, because it only lasted for a couple mornings before they moved on to something else.
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Post by Prole Hole on Jun 28, 2023 16:07:32 GMT -5
No, he's not curating episodes as such. The first few episodes of S1 were just a "here's the show!"-type introduction. According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. The point of him showing me the show is that he wants me to like it so skipping over the first couple of patchy seasons in favour of continuing with Season Three will give a good starting point while allowing the plot beats of the last two seasons to be easily picked up on (such as they are). Hence now being a few episodes into the third season and deciding to do this thread! He reckons that from the beginning of S3 onwards things are basically good till the end, with the possibility of skipping the odd stinker along the way (I am led to believe there's very few of these). Initial upcoming thoughts incoming shortly. Are you skipping the bulk of seasons 1 and 2 of TNG as well? We watched a few curated episodes to establish that he actually liked the show from S1, one from S2, a small scattering from S3 and S4 then once we were sure he enjoyed it have gone back to fill in the blanks. But, you know, not every episode from the early seasons because they're episodes from the early seasons. So plenty of skipping yes, but for example we watched Skin Of Evil tonight, which is crap episode but Tasha dies so you kinda have to get through it. Also, there's the fact that Patrick Stewart is in his list of top 5 fuckable celebrities, though I would add that only came about because we started watching TNG. What have I done...
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Post by Prole Hole on Jun 28, 2023 16:08:41 GMT -5
No, he's not curating episodes as such. The first few episodes of S1 were just a "here's the show!"-type introduction. According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. The point of him showing me the show is that he wants me to like it so skipping over the first couple of patchy seasons in favour of continuing with Season Three will give a good starting point while allowing the plot beats of the last two seasons to be easily picked up on (such as they are). Hence now being a few episodes into the third season and deciding to do this thread! He reckons that from the beginning of S3 onwards things are basically good till the end, with the possibility of skipping the odd stinker along the way (I am led to believe there's very few of these). Initial upcoming thoughts incoming shortly. Did the same with my kids when my daughter wanted to start watching The Simpsons on Disney+. "That's great!", I said, "We're starting at season 2." Out of curiosity, why did you start with S2 rather than S3, the consensus start of the golden age? No judgement, just curious.
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Post by Prole Hole on Jun 29, 2023 6:10:30 GMT -5
So time to get started with some initial observations.
Obviously, it's an easy show to like. It's designed as a hang-out show - indeed it's the ultimate hang-out show - and in this there's really no doubting how solidly it hits the mark. You turn up, you hang out for 25 minutes, you go on. Plot beats are just that - beats - and while they give shape to episodes don't tend to get in the way of why anyone's watching, which is to see Your Favourite Characters turn up and Do Stuff Together. And that's what the show exists for. Speaking of those characters, or more specifically the actors behind them, let's have a quick round-up / reminder, shall we? My first impressions are:
Jenifer Anniston: Really, really hard to warm to. She delivers all of her lines like she already expects the laugh so can't quite be bothered to exert herself to deliver them. There's odd exceptions (The One With The Flashback gives a rare example of her bothering) but mostly she seems to be a wig on a stick and servers little purpose beyond that. Can a delivery be described as "entitled"? If so, she's that at this stage. Lisa Kudrow: Very charming, and getting noticeably better as things progress. The few episodes of S1 I saw made Phoebe out to be a standard-issue kook of a type that could get quite wearing but by the time the S3 episodes have rolled round Kudrow has found a way to add real likability and heart to her character. She's getting better lines now too, which helps and I have a sneaking feeling she might just end up being the MVP. Watch this space! Courtney Cox: Weird. There's a sense that she has so much force of personality she's actively having to dial it down to bring herself to sitcom-level delivery. She's got huge screen presence but at least from the episodes I've seen so far the show isn't doing much with it. Plenty of scope for development and will be interesting to see where it goes. Matt LeBlanc: Effortlessly the most charismatic of the bunch. It might have been a bust but it's not hard to see why he got the spin-off when nobody else did. He's perfect sitcom fodder - funny, great sense of timing, enough charm to work as a lead but juuuuust enough humility to not be a complete twat. It's a fine line but the show and LeBlanc are getting it right pretty much every time, which is impressive. An expressive face helps a lot too and he's great at being able to go just far enough over the top but not so far it undermines scenes. Also getting better as the show progresses. Matthew Perry: A bit too broad at this stage and playing everything to the back rows, though obviously with some talent. He's a bit like a Warner Brothers cartoon, all bulging eyes, exaggerated delivery and over-expressive hand gestures. While he remains watchable (and him and LeBlanc are a great pairing - an excellent double-act that always enlivens the material) he's a little more effective when he brings it down just a touch. David Schwimmer: Eh. I want to like him but Ross is just annoying at this stage rather than being the appealing doofus that the show wants to portray him as. He's better either on his own or away from Rachel, with whom he has little rapport (The One With The Princess Leia Fantasy was wildly wide of the mark, and not just because even in 1996 the "Leia Bikini Costume" gags were lame) but again there's loads of space to develop. Having seen Schwimmer in other things (he's the only one I have, other than LeBlanc) I know he's a good actor so hopefully the show will find a bit more for him to do.
I am enjoying the show! We're clipping through it at a pace of an episode every other night or so at the moment and it's always a welcome distraction from the trials and tribulations of the Shoutbox working day. Which is as it should be. I'm looking forward to seeing how the show develops - ten seasons is a lot of material to cover but at this point I'm getting a real impressions of ability yet to be fully deployed. That's not to criticise what I've seen so far, rather more to suggest that there's plenty of scope for more to come. Shows always take time to come to the fore - it's interesting (to me anyway) that both Friends and TNG seem to hit their stride in their third season and I'd certainly never judge the future quality of TNG against it's first couple of seasons (which, also like Friends, are brimming with potential yet to be fulfilled).
Anyway, that gets us out of the gate. More observations to come!
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Post by đȘ silly buns on Jun 29, 2023 13:21:07 GMT -5
Lisa Kudrow was the only one out of the bunch that made things I actually liked outside of the show (Clockwatchers, The Comeback, Lucky Numbers, Romy & Michelle, and some other 90s Indie or quiet/low budget movie).
I always thought she was the one quietly succeeding with an acting career when everyone else was looking at Aniston because she was married to Pitt.
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Post by Rainbow Rosa on Jun 29, 2023 14:45:43 GMT -5
Matt LeBlanc is very fun playing against his persona on Episodes (so good at it that I sometimes forget he was on Friends first, even).
Also, I'm realizing that this thread implies that Prole has never watched Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip. How much do I have to pay you to watch that?
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Post by Ben Grimm on Jun 29, 2023 15:28:53 GMT -5
Matt LeBlanc is very fun playing against his persona on Episodes (so good at it that I sometimes forget he was on Friends first, even). Also, I'm realizing that this thread implies that Prole has never watched Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip. How much do I have to pay you to watch that? Why do you hate Prole so much? What did he ever do to you?
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Post by Prole Hole on Jun 29, 2023 16:23:57 GMT -5
Matt LeBlanc is very fun playing against his persona on Episodes (so good at it that I sometimes forget he was on Friends first, even). Also, I'm realizing that this thread implies that Prole has never watched Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip. How much do I have to pay you to watch that? Why do you hate Prole so much? What did he ever do to you? Was there a Friend in SSonSS?
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Post by Ben Grimm on Jun 29, 2023 17:34:28 GMT -5
Why do you hate Prole so much? What did he ever do to you? Was there a Friend in SSonSS? Matthew Perry
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Post by Desert Dweller on Jun 29, 2023 23:59:58 GMT -5
By the time the show ended I thought Kudrow and Perry were consistently giving the best performances. I liked Cox and LeBlanc okay, but I thought the later seasons had terrible writing for LeBlanc. I didn't really like Aniston that much. I thought Schwimmer was okay, but he got the most bad writing.
Phoebe is the best Friend, no doubt.
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Post by Jean-Luc Lemur on Jul 1, 2023 16:23:48 GMT -5
According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. I did a bit of a rewatch when the A.V. Club was doing their retrospective reviews and to my taste it was actually the opposite. I really preferred the early seasonsâ approachâit was supposed to be a more approachable Seinfeld and I enjoyed their banter about nothing and the ir generally more casual, less melodramatic approach. I think it helped that Ross and Rachelâs personalities hadnât completely entered their ruts yet, either. I found myself less invested after Lauren Tomâs stint on the show and eventually quit the rewatchâthe showâs style was departing from my taste and I preferred Tomâs low-key presence to most of the regularsâ anyway. I have a bit of nostalgia for Central Perk since that sort of cozy coffee shop has mostly disappeared from the US, tooâin terms of actual coffee itâs for the better, but even if they were highly variable in terms of quality and ambience (most of my nostalgia comes from those places when I was a kidâthey were well into their slide when I was in college and dying out afterwards) they mostly couldnât survive the 10s shift to a sleeker coffee aesthetic, with the pandemic as near-total coup de grĂące.
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Post by Some Kind of Munster on Jul 1, 2023 20:53:41 GMT -5
Did the same with my kids when my daughter wanted to start watching The Simpsons on Disney+. "That's great!", I said, "We're starting at season 2." Out of curiosity, why did you start with S2 rather than S3, the consensus start of the golden age? No judgement, just curious. I also started with S2 when I introduced my kid to the Simpsons - in my case largely because I couldnât find S1 through, shall we say, âillegalâ means. While S2 may not technically be golden age, it does have some very good episodes â Lisaâs Substitute, Itchy & Scratchy & Marge, Three Men and a Comic Book, etc. Itâs also got a more grounded tone, as the show was still basically an animated family sitcom at the time, which may be an easier in for kids who arenât as well-versed in densely-packed joke-a-second comedy. In the case of my kid it worked â sheâs kinda obsessed with the show now and has watched far more of it than I have. At last count I believe sheâs watched 29 entire seasons (most of them more than once)
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Post by Roy Batty's Pet Dove on Jul 2, 2023 9:17:38 GMT -5
Out of curiosity, why did you start with S2 rather than S3, the consensus start of the golden age? No judgement, just curious. I also started with S2 when I introduced my kid to the Simpsons - in my case largely because I couldnât find S1 through, shall we say, âillegalâ means. While S2 may not technically be golden age, it does have some very good episodes â Lisaâs Substitute, Itchy & Scratchy & Marge, Three Men and a Comic Book, etc. Itâs also got a more grounded tone, as the show was still basically an animated family sitcom at the time, which may be an easier in for kids who arenât as well-versed in densely-packed joke-a-second comedy. In the case of my kid it worked â sheâs kinda obsessed with the show now and has watched far more of it than I have. At last count I believe sheâs watched 29 entire seasons (most of them more than once) Wait, is âThree Men and a Comic Bookâ that well-regarded? I would consider that one below average by Season 2 standards.
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Post by Some Kind of Munster on Jul 2, 2023 9:38:13 GMT -5
I also started with S2 when I introduced my kid to the Simpsons - in my case largely because I couldnât find S1 through, shall we say, âillegalâ means. While S2 may not technically be golden age, it does have some very good episodes â Lisaâs Substitute, Itchy & Scratchy & Marge, Three Men and a Comic Book, etc. Itâs also got a more grounded tone, as the show was still basically an animated family sitcom at the time, which may be an easier in for kids who arenât as well-versed in densely-packed joke-a-second comedy. In the case of my kid it worked â sheâs kinda obsessed with the show now and has watched far more of it than I have. At last count I believe sheâs watched 29 entire seasons (most of them more than once) Wait, is âThree Men and a Comic Bookâ that well-regarded? I would consider that one below average by Season 2 standards. I dunno, I like it. Admittedly I might be more fond of it than it deserves since itâs the first episode I can remember watching on its initial airing and I therefore have a generally positive view of it.
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Post by LazBro on Jul 3, 2023 7:45:34 GMT -5
Did the same with my kids when my daughter wanted to start watching The Simpsons on Disney+. "That's great!", I said, "We're starting at season 2." Out of curiosity, why did you start with S2 rather than S3, the consensus start of the golden age? No judgement, just curious. The main reason was because I would joining them on this journey myself, at least as much as I could, and I personally wanted to start there. It was a little rougher than I'd remembered, the animation especially, so I wonder if things would have turned out differently if I'd started them on S3 instead. Not that I can't still do that sometime.
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Post by liebkartoffel on Jul 4, 2023 17:06:33 GMT -5
My family was big into Friends, so between first-run eps and the unavoidable syndicated blocks on multiple channels--ah, to be a latchkey kid in the pre-streaming era--I've almost certainly seen each episode at least three times. I'd say the first three or four seasons are probably the strongest, when the show really was kind of a hip, refreshing, Gen-X take on the traditional sitcom and the jokes were relatively sharp. After that point the characters become increasingly terrible versions of themselves--Monica becomes an unbearable type-A shrew, Chandler becomes an unbearable puerile buffoon, Ross becomes an unbearable neurotic jackass, Rachel becomes...eh, she was always unbearable, etc.
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Post by Roy Batty's Pet Dove on Jul 4, 2023 20:42:39 GMT -5
Do any of you remember the episode where Phoebe or Rachel or...Melanie? Monica? has a baby and Ross or Joey or...the...other one, passes a kidney stone ? This is the one episode of Friends that I have any memory of.
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Post by Celebith on Jul 6, 2023 13:28:56 GMT -5
So, is your partner curating episodes? Are you not watching them in order, or just skipping around, or what? Curious as to why you've only seen these episodes?
No, he's not curating episodes as such. The first few episodes of S1 were just a "here's the show!"-type introduction. According to him the first couple of seasons are a bit ropey in terms of the writing and he was a bit worried that ploughing through them might discourage me from continuing with the show. He reckons that from the beginning of S3 onwards things are basically good till the end, with the possibility of skipping the odd stinker along the way (I am led to believe there's very few of these). Initial upcoming thoughts incoming shortly. Season 1 and 2 have some rough patches, but Ross and Rachel were sympathetic enough that people were rooting for them, unlike later seasons where we were just rooting for them to die. He could probably stitch together the essential episodes and save you some of the worst bits.
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